Yoga: the Vaccine Against Teenage Angst

  Most of us remember our turbulent teenage years with a cringe - only a cruel God would couple hormonal awkwardness with crippling self-consciousness as the two most prominent characteristics of adolescence.  We all survived, and the sentimental among us might even suggest that we are stronger having faced the many challenges of growing up.  However, while puberty might be a fact of life, I don't believe the suffering has to be a rite of passage.

Timeless depiction of teenage angst.
(Combat angst by imagining Emilio Estevez doing yoga)

  Self Esteem: the only known antidote for teenage angst.  This is a particularly important concept for young women as we tend to be our own harshest critics, known to compare our bodies to those of classmates, coworkers, and even photoshopped celebrities.  For teenagers in a state of physical and emotional flux, this preoccupation with an impossible standard can be devastating, leading young women especially to take extreme and unhealthy measures to look like someone else.  It is important to instill the value of self-love in our children before these changes start taking place to help make growing up a happy transition.  A regular yoga practice for kids and teens is a great place for young people to get to know and love their bodies, even as it changes shape and size.

Coordination. Yoga is the perfect way for young people to get acquainted with their bodies, gaining and maintaining control of motor skills as they grow and develop as children and young adults.  Practicing bodily control on the mat will help teens combat the clumsiness that comes with adolescence.

Tuning out.  Teenagers are already famous for their selective listening skills - now yoga can help them become experts at even tuning themselves out!  During class, they will learn to quiet their minds, focusing on the practice and listening to the cues of the teacher. This also means being better able to turn off that self-critical voice that governs teenage self-doubt.

Patience.  Yoga takes a great deal of patience; but with practice, improvement is inevitable.  It is hugely rewarding once any yogi realizes she can now stretch deeper or balance longer in a challenging pose.  The pride that comes with improvement in the yoga studio will facilitate self-esteem in all aspects of life.

  While self-esteem is crucial for young girls, it is hugely important for all kids.  Another unfortunate truth about growing up is the existence of bullies.  It is often a lack of self-esteem that leads kids to be cruel to others in the first place; luckily self-love helps the victims of bullying to stay strong and cope.  Growing up can be awkward, but it doesn't have to be painful. Through teaching kids yoga, we can help them to be happy in their own skin and embrace their bodies!

Halloween Time Yoga Fun!

Halloween is always exciting, especially for children.  Holidays and special occasions are the perfect opportunities to incorporate fun and different activities during these times of year.  Yoga for kids naturally takes the form of playacting and pretending, so a Halloween theme is the perfect fit for a class of little yogis!

Here are 5 fun ways to make your yoga routine extra spooky:

1.  "Boo" breath Breathing exercises have always been calming and cleansing - now they can be fun!  As an opener for class, start this exercise with kids sitting in easy pose (criss-cross-applesauce, that is).  Have yogis take a deep breath in, then exhale with their favorite ghostly noises.  BoooOOOooo!

Lil' yogi witch

2.  Witch  Commonly known as Utthita Tadasana, or extended mountain, this will be an instant Halloween hit!  Have little yogis take a few deep breaths while making a tall, pointy witch hat with their hands.

3.  Spider pose  To us grown-ups: Ardha Purvottanasana, or crab pose.  To a bunch of spooky yoga kids: a fun way to creep out their yoga teacher!

Frankenstein!

4.  Frankenstein walk  Everybody's favorite Halloween personality, Frankenstein!  Have kids monster-walk from one side of the room to the other by trying to touch opposite hand to opposite foot with arms and knees held straight.  Monster noises are to be encouraged. (BONUS: Play Monster Mash and make this move into a full-blown Halloween line dancing routine!)

5.  Corpse pose  Halloween time is the only time that I will call Savasana by its otherwise morbid English name in a kids class - "sleeping vampire" works just as well, too.  After laying still, have kids "rise from the grave" by reaching their hands toward the ceiling, sitting up slowly.  Spoooky!

My favorite part about Halloween season is seeing kids wearing their costumes 24/7 for the entire month of October, but a close second is doing Halloween yoga!  Namaste, and happy haunting!

Jenga, and other Fun Ways to Focus

Trying not to tumble the tower...

While getting kids active is a major goal of any little yoga class, an equally important goal is helping kids be calm and centered.  If it were as easy as just telling youngsters to be calm, it wouldn't be such a challenge!  Luckily, yoga is a perfect way for kids to practice focusing their energy on a productive task.  One of our favorite activities in my studio is Yoga Jenga.

Before starting the game, we do yoga breathing exercises while we warm up our fine motor skills.  We play using classic Jenga rules, with the addition of a yoga pose written on each block that must be performed to complete every turn.  The kids love seeing how tall they can get the tower without knocking it over, so they don't need me to remind them to be calm and careful during the game! It is the perfect excercise in self-control and concentration, and with the common goal of keep the tower from toppling, the game is lighthearted and no competitive. 

 Jenga is one of my favorite kids yoga activities, but there are countless ways to practice concentration and attentiveness:

Read.  Have your kids listen as you read to them, checking in periodically to see that they are following along. Let older kids practice reading aloud to you - what better way for them to get ahead with literacy!
Color.  Kids of all ages love coloring!  You can find hundreds of free printable coloring sheets here.  Even better Han coloring is drawing.  Play some instrumental music, and on a blank sheet of paper have the little yogis draw or color whatever the music makes them think of.
Sing.  Learn new songs together! Or teach them new ways to sing old favorites, like singing Row Row Row Your Boat in a round.
Origami. You can often find free community newspapers that have the perfect pages for making a kid-size origami hat.  Only a few simple folds, add some color customization, and it's ready to wear!

All of these activities are fun ways for kids to apply themselves.  They are perfect ways of playing that are simple, inexpensive, and great learning opportunities - just like yoga!